Do not look for a spouse among those in a cult or in a dead church, unless the person has risen far above the spiritual level of that church.

• Do not look for a spouse among those in a cult or in a dead church, unless the person has risen far above the spiritual level of that church.

• Unless you are both reborn of God, you will look at life entirely differently. Your perceptual grids will be in opposition. One will filter decisions through a biblical grid, and the other through a different one—what will work, what satisfies self, or an outlook based upon another error.

• • The Roman Catholic church has taught that sex was for procreation (to produce children), rather than for recreation between husband and wife. The Song of Solomon makes clear that sexual ecstasy is to be sought within marriage (see chapter 7). Principle—do not take a wife among those far from God.