A woman who gives away her virginity without the vows of marriage is incredibly blind or ignorant. She squanders her purity and her body and the man takes advantage of her, taking without giving security.

• A woman who gives away her virginity without the vows of marriage is incredibly blind or ignorant. She squanders her purity and her body and the man takes advantage of her, taking without giving security.

• According to one study, only 10% of those living together unmarried eventually marry each other.

• “Why buy the cow, when you can have the milk for free?” There is little leverage for marriage left (Jehosaphat Wanyama).