Sexual Communication

• • Share specifically what pleases you and what doesn’t. We don’t have to conform to every desire, but we may find a middle way. If your spouse is unwilling to do something, don’t, but “test the waters” later (Tim Anastasi).
  • Rejection in sex is particularly painful, going to the roots of our basic identity—as male or female.
  • We’ve already given sexual rights and cannot rightly take them back.
  • The husband needs to sacrifice his own pleasure at times, for his wife’s.