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Children in Polygamy
•One of the problems with polygamy is that these families usually have many children. There may be 20 or more.
–In African society, according to tribe, the father may not involve himself very much with his young children, much less if there are many children.
•If a father waits until his child is in the early teens, it will probably be too late to bond with that child.
–Being one person, it is difficult to love a large number of children well.
•As James Dobson has noted, children need to know that you are on their “team,” that you are on their side and are cheering for them to win. Then when you correct them, they will know that you love them, even if they think your correction is misplaced.