Life Comes Before Growth
nPeople cannot grow spiritually if they aren’t born again. They are still dead in sin.
–Ephesians 2:4-5   But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy,  5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions-- it is by grace you have been saved. 
nSpiritual disciplines and methods will not help someone grow who is dead. They often obscure their lostness. This was true of John Wesley before his conversion.
nYou cannot clean a fish before it is caught.